Romans 8:31-39 has become a "go-to" passage for me of late.
"For your sake we face death all day long;
we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered." 37No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (NIV)
Notice that it doesn't promise you deliverance from hardship, it promises that hardship cannot separate you from the love of Christ. It assumes that we as believers will face trouble, hardship, persecution, famine, nakedness, danger, sword, death, demons, powers and other things, but none of that can separate us from the love of God that is ours in Christ.
This is pure theology of the cross, which I wrote about here. This brings about a total reorientation of life. As I have delved deeper and deeper into the theology of the cross I have found that many of my assumptions about how God deals with us continue to be challenged and also how God in His providence is actually reconstructing my whole life around the cross, to be defined by the cross. Can't say it's always enjoyable but it is His will and I am slowly (though not without some fighting and/or wining) learning to embrace a life defined by the cross.
In a summary contrast between the theology of the cross and the theology of glory Todd Wilken points out that the theology of glory understands God's favor this way:
While the theology of the cross sees it this way:
Victor Shepard channels Luther on this matter:
And:
Thus, the evidence of God's love is not to be found in the circumstances of life, it is to be found in the objective reality of the cross. It also seems though, that the objective reality of the cross becomes the subjective experience of the believer as the believer is led into sufferings as Christ was.
My only further comments are that I can accept all of this intellectually but it is hard to accept emotionally. At the same time there is something about that last quote from Luther that resonates. I guess I have always expected my growing faith to be a feel good faith, I'd grow in feeling good. Lately I don't have a feel-good faith, but I do think I have a more alive faith (does that make sense?).
And I won't say that my joy in the Lord is where it should be or could be, but it's not absent, and I have no doubts that I am in the center of God's love.
Well, that's a few late night ramblings from a guy whose a bit exhausted - I hope it makes some sense and I hope that if you are going through a trial that somewhere in the midst of it you know can find that your faith can be an alive faith even if it's not a feel-good faith, and I hope you have some glimpse of God's great love for you in the midst of it all.

Thank you, David. I found encouragement in these eternal truths I'm so prone to forget.
Posted by: Jan McKenzie | February 16, 2009 at 11:38 AM
Hello,
This is my first time reading your blog, and it's really encouraging. I am certainly believe that living with God is good, although yes there are many obstacles, but I am certain that God is always by ourside to help if we put our trust in Him.
God bless! =)
Posted by: Licu | February 20, 2009 at 07:35 PM
Beautiful, Beautiful! Remember, it's okay to fall apart sometimes, just rest in knowing you do so in His arms. God bless and Keep you.
Posted by: Anne | February 20, 2009 at 11:09 PM
Journalist Robert Novak is currently being treated for cancer (a tumor in his brain I believe). In an interview last year he was asked an interesting question, and gave an interesting reply:
Q: What's the most helpful thing someone can say to a person who's gravely ill?
A: There's not much you can say. A lot of people say: "You're a tough guy and a fighter. You're gonna beat this." Well, I don't know if I will beat it. Being tough and a fighter have nothing to do with it. I guess the most helpful thing they can say, if they're a man or woman of faith, is to tell me they're praying for me.
Praying.
Posted by: J. | February 21, 2009 at 03:00 AM